tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249323002068378696.post6160415130234366652..comments2023-10-11T04:02:08.169-07:00Comments on The Dating Diary<br>Of a City Girl: His Point Of View: ‘Should I leave my girlfriend?’Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04715554041981962934noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249323002068378696.post-2753321570866383142015-01-01T12:53:59.151-08:002015-01-01T12:53:59.151-08:00I have fallen for a guy (from out of town) I met, ...I have fallen for a guy (from out of town) I met, who has a girlfriend. I only found that out later but thankfully nothing had happened between us except for him visiting me a few times. When I found out I immediately told him I'm not interested and he does not know what he wants so he needs to figure it out and that we can just remain nothing but friends.<br />There is this crazy chemistry between us and he is actually moving to my town. I have no idea what this means. Probably nothing. <br />We call and chat almost everyday. He says he wants to be with me & rationally I know this is bull. If he wanted to be with me he would. <br />I have a problem letting go that is why I said we can remain friends. I know this is not a good idea but I cannot let go of him completely. I will never be his chick on the side. I'm stubborn and level headed like that or has at least some sense.<br />Today like some stalker lady I googled: Will he leave his girlfriend for me? <br />Why does my heart still believe this could happen while my brain tells me it will not?<br />My heart tells me :1)He said he has always loved me. {We went to the same schools even though we were never friends. He was a few years before me & I was typical skinny outcast super smart nerdy chick and he was very popular and a rebel. Have no idea how he even knew I was alive and funny enough when we met I had no idea who he was}<br />My heart also tells me<br />2) He is moving to be closer to me. Actual have concrete prove that he is moving to my town soon.<br />3) We have this amazing chemistry and we can talk about anything and nothing.<br />I am a pretty level headed girl but this still has me twisted in knots and with him I play carefree. I am now on a camping trip with a group of hot guys and instead of being with them I'm on here going on about him while ignoring his texts. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249323002068378696.post-48266189296992587372014-11-27T09:41:34.141-08:002014-11-27T09:41:34.141-08:00I completely agree with you. Sometimes everyone ju...I completely agree with you. Sometimes everyone just needs to step back and take a break. It helps clear the mind and makes you see the situation more clearly without all your emotions taking over.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04715554041981962934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6249323002068378696.post-51634287304682017662014-11-26T15:02:14.563-08:002014-11-26T15:02:14.563-08:00Habits are hard to break! I would hate to be someo...Habits are hard to break! I would hate to be someone's habit. I think he needs to grow some and take a minute of solitude to figure himself out without Helen and Nadia. Maybe some time and distance from both of them will help him determine which girl he really can't be without. He's young so he's not gonna know how to keep it as real as possible. I just hope he doesn't figure it out years later after marriage and kids are involved. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com